Your Family. Your Timeline.
Your Terms.
Join thousands of empowered women who have chosen motherhood on their own path. Xytex has helped single mothers by choice build their families since 1975.
Is This Right For Me?
Becoming a single mother by choice is a significant decision. Here are some questions many women consider.
Is This Right For Me?
- Am I ready to be a single parent?
- Do I have a support system in place?
- Have I considered how I'll talk to my child about their origins?
- Am I emotionally prepared for this journey?
Financial Considerations
- Can I afford the initial costs of donor sperm and procedures?
- Have I budgeted for childcare as a single parent?
- Do I have emergency savings?
- Have I explored financing options?
Timeline Expectations
- How long might it take to conceive?
- Am I prepared for multiple cycles if needed?
- Have I discussed timing with my healthcare provider?
- Do I understand my fertility timeline?
Choosing a Donor as a Single Woman
Identity Disclosure Matters
55.6% of SMBCs prefer identity disclosure. All our donors since 2017 are identity disclosed, giving your child the option to connect at 18.
Select Without Partner Input
Choose traits that matter to you—ethnicity, education, interests, personality. Our detailed profiles help you find your ideal match.
Plan for Future Siblings
Many SMBCs want siblings from the same donor. Purchase extra vials upfront with free storage for up to 3 years.
Your SMBC Journey
Here's what your path to motherhood might look like. Every journey is unique, but this gives you an idea of the process.
Research & Select Donor
Browse donor profiles, review medical histories, and choose your ideal match. Take advantage of our 7-day free trial.
Order Vials & Schedule
Purchase vials, coordinate with your clinic or prepare for at-home insemination, and schedule your procedure.
Insemination Cycles
Begin your insemination journey. Most women try 3-6 cycles. Track ovulation and stay connected with your care team.
Pregnancy
Celebrate your positive test! We're here to support you through pregnancy and beyond. Report your birth to us!
Planning for Future Siblings
Many SMBCs want the option of future children from the same donor. Here's how to plan ahead.
Why Buy Extra Vials?
- Guarantee same donor for future siblings
- Donors can retire at any time
- Popular donors sell out quickly
- Locks in today's pricing
Our Storage Benefits
- Free storage for 1 year with 4+ vials
- Free storage for 3 years with 8+ vials
- 50% buyback on unused vials
- Flexible storage extensions available
Support & Community
Connect with other single mothers by choice and find the support you need for this journey.
Single Mothers by Choice (SMC)
National organization supporting single women choosing motherhood
Visit SiteChoice Moms
Resources, podcasts, and community for choice mothers
Visit SiteDonor Sibling Registry
Connect with half-siblings and donor-conceived families
Visit SiteDownload Our Free SMBC Guide
A comprehensive guide covering everything from choosing a donor to talking to your child about their origins.
Download Free GuideFrequently Asked Questions
Ready to Write Your Story?
Thousands of women have chosen to become mothers on their own terms. Your journey starts with a single step.